What is the EMDR?
Benefits of EMDR
EMDR Therapy – for after a divorce?
What I find amazing about this therapy is that I could chose a clinical psychologist that was specialised for me – and others like me – a high IQ individual! This is so exciting for our brains are wired differently and we need to have someone that can help us, so the first time I used EMDR was for my child, when the eldest was going through a freak out after 4 years of heavy beating from his collège peers. He had done some counseling with ‘normal’ psychologists but to no avail and in fact when I went to see them “Mum I can never get a word in!!” the same happened to me and I went nuts saying how outrageous I thought it was that some one like that could even be labeled a psychologist! I now understand why we can never be treated psychologically by others that are not trained for us 😉 but we are just “normal people”
So with the EMDR Therapy…
I personally was very happy with the results I obtained. I would talk normally to my analyst and occasionally she would stop and asked me how did I feel about that?
andTo make it clearer, let’s use a real life example:
I’d like to discuss the first time T hit me. To cut a long story a little shorter I was sleeping on the sofa. I had just done my first day as a factory worker in the freezing cold (0°C to – 30°C / -22°F) 8 hour shift sorting out carrot cubes (frozen) returning home at midnight to a cold house(winter – fire gone out) and as we were not on best terms I just laid down in the sofa – yes to make a point! When his alarm went off at 5 am (why???) and he was not turning it off or getting up, it kept beeping, ringing ‘Oh for god’s sake your alarm clock T!’
He came out of that room a different person, I can barely describe his features, his allure but I was shit scared and cornered. He laid into me and as this was the first time I can’t begin to describe how I felt, how the blows kept coming and how I just curled up in my blanket stunned, physically and emotionally.
we would make our chairs get closer and as I described the event in question, she would make me follow her fingers with my eyes and the pain would move up my body. At chakra points until eventually it would just leave and I would feel so happy
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